communication, mis-

passive-aggressive
adjective
of or denoting a type of behavior or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of others and an avoidance of direct confrontation, as in procrastinating, pouting, or misplacing important materials.

and, i'd like to make two important additions to this definition: being two-faced and complaining/backbiting to an unrelated source or observer.



if people just knew how hurtful it can be.